Being Proactive Equals your Success
9 Easy Steps to Follow
The World’s your Oyster is a saying that sums life up. Whatever
we want
is within our grasp. Each person has to go out and get it. Unless
you’r one of the very
lucky or privileged few…the money you want, the dreams you
want, aren’t’ going to
be handed to you. You’ve got to be proactive and work towards
your success.
Being proactive means a change in thinking, followed by a change
in actions. Often
you need to eliminate from your mind old beliefs about life, that
aren’t supporting
you. If you keep thinking, “money is hard to get” you’ll
never keep enough or earn
enough because subconsciously you’ll find a way of sabotaging
yourself. Your new
thoughts could be ‘money is flowing to me easily’.
Fortunately, your success is in your head…and luckily it’s
up to you. There’s another
saying If it’s going to be – it’s up to me and
that is true. Success isn’t an overnight
event and for everyone, success equates to an individuals choice.
It may be passing an
exam, learning to skydive or making $50,000 profit in their business.
It takes between 21 and 28 days to change a habit. You alter one
and there’s another
habit you need to change. Your success is stepping stones in progress.
9 Steps to Become Proactive
- Positive – Negatively is rife in life. It’s in
the media, magazines, people. If
you want to be positive you need to rid yourself of negativity. Turn off the television
is your first step.
- Results – You need to have a goal, dream or desire you’re
working towards.
Maybe it’s money in the bank, increased cash flow in your business. A holiday, new
car or ten new clients. As the saying says in the Wizard of Oz. Any road will take you
there, if you don’t know where you’re going.
- Overcoming Fear – Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real.
There’s a great
book Feal the Fear and do it anyway by Susan Jeffries. Imagine not attempting to
walk when you were young. You wouldn’twant to live without it now…. but you
didn’t give up. You tried and succeeded. Take small steps to over come your fear.
- Attitude – My Attitude postcard reads: Past, Present,
Future, Every second
you have a choice. Choose Positive and be your own Success Story. It’s true; you can
only think one thought at a time. Make it a positive one.
- Confidence – Walk tall, stand straight, wear your best
clothes, use eye contact
(careful with some cultures) Smile!. Robyn Henderson the International Networking
guru says Fake it until you make it. You might have butterflies in your stomach, but
no one can see them.
- Talking & Communication – Improve your communication
by joining
Toastmasters and at the same time gain confidence. Attend assertive communication
courses, learn about confident communication and remember Hello and Thank You.
- Interactive – Just do it….is the Nike advertisement.
Make the appointments
and approach new clients, meet new people, join social clubs. Life is for living.
- Victorious – With every small success reward you. After
ten sales calls, have a
coffee, after a completing a task well, find a way of patting yourself on your back.
Acknowledge that you’ve achieved something.
- Enthusiasm – Find the ‘it’s great to be alive’ feeling.
Discover your passions,
experience and enjoy them. Smell the roses, enjoy good health, eat well and find the
vitality in life from within. You’ve got it, but it’s up to you to discover it. Everyone
has free will, the choice is yours!
If you want success and need help, read books, quotes, or work
with a Success Coach.
Register for my weekly quote, phone about a FREE 30 minute first appointment,
Phone 09 820 25 28, Mobile 021 514 511 or enquire about my new service, Online
janice@attitudespecialist.co.nz.
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